Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•9:35 AM
Discovered the Article published below because some friends gave us Lemon Verbena as a gift yesterday ... although we grow our own Herbs and dehydrate them... (they make great gifts too), we have never grown this one, so I am eager to give it a try. (Lemon Balm has been the lemony Herb I discovered initially and have grown and given away for years. It self sows... so if you choose to grow it, do put it in a place where you don't mind babies... (which can be potted and not only given away but used to Barter with or sell for additional cash ... fresh or dryed). Lemon Balm can be used in the Recipes below as well, which also includes non food related ideas such as Potpourri and Hair Rinses.

I am publishing this particular article on Herbs presently because it has a recipe which can be used with the Snack Cake Master Mix published in previous post, (Will be highlighted below).

Enjoy!


Using and Growing Lemon Verbena
By Brenda Hyde

If you've never rubbed a leaf of lemon verbena it's impossible to explain its lovely scent. Yes, it's lemon, but yet it's also a captivating fragrance that almost instantly relaxes you. To me, it's the ultimate in aromatherapy. If you grow just one lemon scented herb it should be lemon verbena. Although to grow just one lemon herb would be a shame, since they are all so wonderful.
Lemon verbena, aloysia triphylla (formally Lippia citriodora), is a native of Chile and Peru, where it grows ten to fifteen foot tall. I've read it can grow 5 foot or more in one season, but mine is only about a foot and a half tall at this point. We have had some cool nights this summer, plus I can't resist harvesting it often, which I'm sure keeps it from growing to it's full potential. Lemon verbena needs at least 6 hours of sun, and I found it did better in a traditional herb soil that was on the dry side as well. Mine started out in a bed of good soil with compost and organic fertilizer, but did not branch out or start growing until I moved it to my kitchen herb bed where it was slightly drier and had no added compost.

Lemon Verbena will not survive frost, but in cold climates it may be brought inside. Be prepared, because it will lose it's leaves, but keep it in a sunny window and water once a week to keep it from drying out. By spring it will have leaves again, and after the danger of frost has passed you can place the pot outside, burying it to the rim in your garden. It's only hardy in Zones 9 and 10, and won't withstand temperatures below 40 degrees.

Unlike some herbs, lemon verbena will retain its scent for years when dried, which is why it's not only a popular culinary herb, but also a potpourri ingredient. I dried mine in the oven on the lowest setting by placing it on baking sheets lined with parchment paper. I was very pleased with the results and it only took 2-3 hours to dry. I combined it with pineapple and apple mint, which made a nice tea.

I have also used it in herb vinegars this year combined with other lemon herbs as well as in mixtures with rosemary and thyme.

You can use lemon verbena in place of lemon zest in recipes. Virtually any fruit salad can be enhanced with its finely chopped leaves. Bury 6 lemon verbena leaves in a cup of sugar that has been placed in a covered jar or container. Use this sugar to top muffins, fruit, or sprinkle on the top of muffin batter before baking. Because the leaf is rather tough you'll need to mince it very fine if you plan on leaving it in a dish, or add it whole and remove before serving. Dried, it should be crumbed before adding to recipes.

Process 10-15 lemon verbena leaves in a food processor with the sugar from your favorite sugar cookie recipe. Continue with the recipe as directed after processing the two together. The following recipes can also be used with fresh and dried lemon verbena or if it's not available try substituting lemon grass or lemon balm.

Lemon Verbena Potpourri You will need:dried peel of one lemon 2 cups dried lemon verbena leaves 1 cup dried chamomile flowers 6 inch cinnamon stick, crushed 1 cup dried calendula petals 1 tsp. orris root powder 2-3 drops lemon verbena essential oil (optional)
Dry the lemon peel by scraping it off the lemon with a vegetable peeler, spread on paper and dry in a warm place for about 2 weeks, until crisp. Mix all the ingredients together. Seal in a tin and put in a warm place for about 2-3 weeks, shaking occasionally. Use to scent a room, or for sachets. Add more essential oil as the smell fades. Adapted from Kitchen and Herb Gardener by Richard Bird and Jessica Houdret

Lemon Verbena Syrup Ingredients:1 cup lemon verbena leaves 1/2 cup sugar 1/2 cup water
Blanch the lemon verbena leaves in boiling water briefly to brighten the color, then immediately plunge into ice water to stop cooking. Place the sugar and water in a small saucepan, bring to a simmer, then remove from the heat and cool. Place the lemon verbena and cooled syrup in a blender and pulse on high for 2 minutes. Chill overnight, then strain through a fine mesh strainer. Keep leftovers refrigerated. Use with ice cream, pound cake or other light desserts, as well as fruit.

Lemon Rose Tea Ingredients: 1/2 cup torn lemon verbena leaves 1/4 cup rose hips Honey
Place 4 cups of water in a teakettle or medium saucepan and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to a simmer and add the lemon verbena and rose hips. Remove from the heat and steep for about 15 minutes. Return to the heat and simmer for 1 minute. Pour into individual tea cups or mugs, sweeten with honey and serve.

Lemon Verbena Cake Ingredients:1 2/3 cups granulated sugar 1/8 tsp. salt 1 cup butter flavored shortening 2 drops lemon extract 2 cups cake flour or regular flour sifted several times 1/4 cup fresh chopped Lemon Verbena leaves 5 eggs

Cream together the sugar and shortening until well mixed. Add the eggs 1 at a time, mixing for one minute after each addition. Add dry ingredients gradually, scraping down the sides. Add the extract and the verbena leaves. Pour into a Bundt or tube pan, which is well coated with the shortening and floured. Bake at 325 degrees for 1 hour and 15 minutes or until golden brown (testing with a toothpick). Remove to a cooling rack for 15 minutes. Remove from pan onto a serving plate. Drizzle with glaze or dust with confectioners' sugar.

Lemon Verbena Scones Ingredients: 2 cups all purpose flour 1 1/2 cups rolled oats2 tsp. baking powder 1/2 tsp. baking soda 1/2 tsp. salt 1/4 cup brown sugar 1/4 cup cold butter 1/4 cup finely chopped fresh lemon verbena leaves 1 egg, beaten 1/2 cup plain yogurt 1/4 cup milk
Preheat oven to 425º F. In a large bowl, combine flour, oats, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and brown sugar. Cut in the butter with your fingers or a pastry cutter until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Add the lemon verbena leaves; mix until combined just combined. Make a well in the center of flour mixture. Add the egg, yogurt, and milk, stirring well. Mix in with the flour mixture to form a soft dough. Coat a12-inch cast iron skillet with a non-stick cooking spray. With floured hands, pat the dough into skillet. Cut with a sharp, serrated knife into eight wedges. (You can also pat the dough into a circle this same size on a baking sheet, and then cut into wedges.) Bake at 425º F for 15 minutes, or until lightly browned. Serve warm. Makes 8 servings.

Raspberry-Lemon Verbena Butter From The Herb Companion Ingredients: 1/2 pound unsalted butter 1 tablespoon sugar, or to taste 4 ounces fresh or frozen raspberries (not in syrup) 1 small handful young, tender lemon verbena leaves

Thaw the raspberries if frozen, and pour off any excess liquid. With all ingredients at room temperature, blend butter, sugar, and raspberries until smooth (about 3 minutes). Strip out any large veins in the lemon verbena leaves, then add the leaves (chopped if you're mixing by hand) and blend until the texture is pleasing.

Lemon Butter Ingredients:1 cup unsalted butter, softened 1/4 cup fresh lemon juice2 tablespoons powdered sugar Grated peel of 1 lemon 4 to 6 fresh very finely minced lemon verbena leaves

Combine all ingredients in a food processor and pulse until smooth. Refrigerate covered about 2 hours until firm.

Lemon Verbena Hair Rinse Ingredients: 3 tablespoons lemon verbena leaves 1 cup boiling water

Pour the boiling water over the lemon verbena leaves. Steep for about an hour. Strain the mixture, discarding herb. Use as a rinse after shampoo and conditioning your hair.

Salt-Free Herb Seasoning Ingredients: 1/2 cup dried dill weed 1 tbsp. dried lemon verbena 1/2 cup dried minced onion 1 tbsp. dried lovage, or celery seeds 2 tsp. garlic powder 2 tbsp. dried thyme 1 tsp. paprika 1 tbsp. dried marjoram

In batches, grind all ingredients together. Store in an airtight container out of the sunlight and away from heat.


About The Author

Brenda Hyde is a freelance writer living on ten acres in rural Michigan with her husband and three kids. Stop by and visit her garden blog, Garden of Grace & Whimsy, and her photography blog, A Dance of Words & Photos.
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•6:48 PM




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As promised... here is a Homemade Snack Cake Master Mix with some Recipe ideas ... Do keep in mind such can be put into a Canning Jar or charming air tight container with an attractive Label and Recipe Cards... and can be given away as gifts any time of year.

Enjoy!

Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•9:09 PM





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As Promised in a previous post: the Master Mix Recipes I received from the local County Extension Service back in the 1970's. I included another Master Mix Table of Contents to offer suggestions of what can be done with the Master Mix Recipe... or another purchased product which is similar.


As I learned to cook... I decided to be adventurous and use my imagination and my desire to be creative to see if I could make any recipe I came across more interesting ... for example: I tried making the Coffee Cake richer by adding butter or vanilla or another extract, or extra sugar and a little Cinnamon and Nutmeg and/or Nuts to the batter ... doubling a topping and adding additional Spices and Nuts or Coconut, Chocolate Chips, Fruit or Preserves are some ideas I have played with .... decreasing the milk in the batter of choice and rolling the dough into balls which are then rolled into 3 TB brown sugar, tsp and half of cinnamon, and lots of finely chopped nuts is something fun to try too. Any ideas from each of you are always welcome...

As promised in previous post... I will be returning soon with a Homemade Snack Cake Mix and Recipes, Hot Chocolate Mix, Cream Pie and Pudding Master Mixes and the like.

A Note to those who have a desire to be generous and thoughtful but need to be so in an economical way ... ALL of these Master Mixes can be added to a Canning Jar or charming air tight container and decorated with ribbon/a simple Label of Instructions... adding a few Recipe Cards when appropriate ... and given away as Gifts:
"Get Well Soon" "Thinking of You" "Missed You" "You'll be Missed" "Welcome to Our Community" "Congratulations" "Thank You" "Birthdays" "Anniversaries" "Holidays" "Just because I Love You" "Gifts to Hostesses/Teachers/Secret Pals" to name a few
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•10:38 PM
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As the Chef of Listening Heart Farm Bed and Breakfast... I decided to offer the guests what they wanted meal wise ... when appropriate. We offered 3 meals a day, to include Picnic and Candle Light Dinners. The reason for their visit and amount of Guests booked and season of the year often determined the meals. Those who wanted to eat quickly because they had come for local events as well, simply wanted a light Breakfast. Those who were on their Honeymoon or having an Anniversary, often liked a meal alone in their rooms... or in front of the Fire in the Great Room, if there were no other guests coming. When all the rooms were booked, the Large Dining Room Table in the Great Room in front of the Picture Windows, with a fantastic View was usually the best place to serve the meals. When the weather was pleasant... eating on the wrap around multi leveled Cascading Deck with Hot Tub, which led down to the Heated Pool, Gazebo and Picnic area, with a view of the Mountains of Skyline Drive off in the distance worked for others. Often... we had those who came for a Bed and Breakfast experience who simply wanted to befriend us... they usually requested the opportunity to hang out and eat in the Eat In Kitchen and talk with us as I prepared their meals and my hubby helped to serve. This usually worked out to their advantage... because when they wanted a casual meal... I could make their eggs and bacon to taste... over easy, scrambled, crisp and the like...


When it came to Breakfast... I was usually able to offer anything from Light, Healthy, in season Home Grown Organic Vegetarian, Casual, Gourmet or a Hearty Country Breakfast.

When I made suggestions... the men who wanted a Hearty Country Breakfast requested this one the most. Juice and Coffee or Tea of choice. Baked Pears with Maple Syrup and Crushed Walnut. Chipped Beef Gravy over Fried Biscuits with a side of Fried Potatoes and Onions. Some women were so delighted to be there with their Spouses... they were usually pleased with whatever their Husbands wanted.


Baked Pears with Maple Syrup and Crushed Walnuts: While the Potatoes and Onions were frying, I would cut a pear in half, core it and add crushed walnuts... next I'd sprinkle a little of the seasoning I made of brown sugar, apple and pumpkin pie seasoning mixed together... finally I'd drizzle maple syrup over the top and into the hole in the middle. I'd bake that until soft about 10-15 minutes at 350. I served it warm with their coffee and Juice

Chipped Beef Gravy over Fried Biscuits: Next I'd take a simple biscuit recipe, (**Bisquick type can be used) and drop it into a pan coated with butter and fry it like a Hamburger Pattie, mushing it as I turned it, one side twice. When I turned it I would add more butter to top and bottom, if it was to be used as a plain Fried Biscuit to be served with preserves... if it was to be served with Chipped Beef Gravy, I'd leave off the extra butter on top. For the Chipped Beef Gravy, I'd cut up a package of Esskay Air Dried Chipped Beef with the scissors into bite size pieces and add that to a pan with 2 1/2 Tb of Bacon Fat... saute it for a minute then add 2 Tb of Flour and 1 Tsp of dried Mustard (the key ingredient), and cook that 2 minutes until browned and thick... then I'd add whole milk a 1/2 cup at a time... let it simmer until thick, adding more milk until it is the right consistency. This was served over the Fried Biscuits.

Fried Potatoes and Onions:
The night before I would use my Food Processor to thinly slice Red and White Potatoes before par boiling them. After cooling I would season them with a little Garlic Powder... a fair amount of Salt, Pepper and Paprika, then I added diced onions and refrigerate it over night... the Potatoes were the first things I would begin to cook, after making Carafe's of Coffee for the guest who liked to get up early and enjoy the facilities within our separate Recreation Building, walk the trails created for their enjoyment, visit our gardens or Tree House (a work in progress), sit out on the Deck with it's relaxing view or in front of the Rock Wall Fireplace on the leather wrap around sofa seeking to get to know other guests and the like. I would begin by cooking it all together in a little bacon fat and melted butter. I would add extra butter when needed. I fried it turning it regularly until fairly crisp.

I'd make a large batch of Fried Potatoes, so the leftover's could be used the next day in a Country Fried Omelet with Cheese and Bacon Bits.... this was served with Angel Biscuits... and a variety of Preserves to include Homemade Pepper Jelly and a side of fresh fruit. (Will Share the Angel Biscuit Recipe in another Blog... this is a light yeast Biscuit... this Recipe was requested by many of our Guests.)

All meals were garnished with a sprig of Parsley for breath/digestion.... and in the summer, when available, Home grown Nasturtium Blossoms or leaves were added... just for the fun of having our guests try them.

**In the next Blog I will share Exact Measurements for Master Mixes: Homemade Bisquick Mix... Homemade Hot Chocolate Mix, Snack Cake Mix, Cream Pies Mix and a Basic Pudding Mix. Ultimately these recipes are not only economical, but once prepared, time savers. The Blog after that will have lots of Recipes for these mixes... so do come back if such interests you.





Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•9:04 PM
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"While your Husband was building on my Home, helping me to prepare it for a Christian Ministry, did the Spirit of the Lord tell you what it is suppose to be?" were the unexpected words I heard from a Sister in the Lord... in the late 90's.

She was unaware in the late 80's... while in prayer, among other things I had seen myself and a Husband I was yet to meet, serving in a Bed and Breakfast Healing Retreat someday and sensed Father telling me that this was something HE was going to bring to pass ... It was impressed upon my Spirit, He would provide the finances and all which was needed when the time came.... such would have something to do with our having a listening heart, it would be on a wealthy Estate of some sort, in the country. As time went by, on two occasions, like Sarah, Abraham's wife in the Book of Genesis... I tried to help Him along through my own understanding. Each time the doors were quickly and abruptly closed... with the gentle reminder... 'I said I would bring it to pass.' On the second occasion, I decided to surrender this promise into His capable hands as I let go of my image and understanding of the final outcome... and simply experienced the days which opened up before us, with an awareness He was preparing us for that which was to come, in His timing and His ways.

When she first hired my soon to be Hubby Charlie and shared her Call to have a Christian Ministry with us, I quietly pondered over the prospect that someday she'd have a Bed and Breakfast/Retreat... somehow we'd be involved... especially after I heard the name she had chosen for her 32 ace Estate in the country. When I answered her, I was very much aware I did not want to manipulate the situation, as I only desired His will, so I decided to suggest 5 things... tucking into the middle the words: A Bed and Breakfast Healing Retreat.

Upon hearing those word she eagerly responded with among other things, something similar to this, "That's it! My new Husband is not interested in having a Christian Ministry... but I know Father has been having me prepare Listening Heart Farm at Rose Hill to be one. I have set aside a sizable amount of my money to finance it and I am to do it for 3 years. This is perfect!! I can justify holding on to my children's inheritance from their deceased father. I can rent it out for the month of August and we can have our family gatherings there each year. Charlie knows the place like the back of his hand... as a team you can take care of the home, the grounds and the visitors easily; with your faith, spiritual gifts and talents you'd make a perfect Host and Hostess. The two of you can move in and set the place up and then we can try it for 3 years and see what the Lord would have us to do after." For her the matter was settled...

After completing her many projects and renovations... my Hubby was suddenly unable to find fresh employment as a Jack of all Trades... very little was opening up for him no matter how much we advertised and passed the word out into the Community that he was available again; and when something did open up, more often than not, the door quickly shut due to an unexpected circumstance on the part of the one who had hired him.

Although this was frustrating to everyone involved, previous spiritual experiences had given my Hubby and I the understanding, when Father backs us into a corner after closing doors... it is because a new spiritual season is upon us ... He has a specific door for us to walk through and He is changing our focus and working on our will to bring it into alignment with His.

The Ideal of a Christian Ministry was something the two of us had come to realize... was something we did not have the power or resources to bring about in our own strength. So we were not too surprised when we found ourselves considering the prospect of renting out our cozy furnished Cottage on one acre and moving onto her Estate... with all her possessions to do something we had never done before; my Hubby being one who likes to work alone... struggled with the thought of being an Inn Keeper... but we desire HIS will... and thus Father's will won out.... giving us 3 glorious years we will never forget!

Lord willing, I will be writing some Blogs... describing some of the miraculous events which took place during that season, ultimately revealing the Sovereignty of God and His bringing us into a deeper abiding place in Christ ... as Father proved HimSelf and revealed His unfolding plan and sovereign will for us. I will also publish some of the Recipes our Guests enjoyed and I enjoyed serving through my role as a Chef ... with that said, it is my hope you will come back to read them and try the Recipes too....
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•11:40 AM
Here is a great Blog for Bird Lovers... http://www.mychurch.org/blog/364963/Help-Our-Feathered-Friends . It has easy, economical and practical Recipes for feeding birds... natural and thrifty Nesting Material suggestions for housing birds... ingenius and creative Bird Feeder ideas... and more ... I added some ideas there myself... but since this Blog was my friends Idea wanted to share her link here so you could find it and meet her... she's a very special lady... Enjoy!
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•8:07 PM
My hubby is always finding interesting Links and Videos while he explores the Net as he unwinds and I would like to share some of them with you; please do the same in the comments below. The more the merrier.

We have a Parrot, who will dance on occasion, but nothing like the Parrot who dances to "Come On Let Me See You Shake Your Tail Feather" in this Video. Click: http://www.metacafe.com/w/2505275/

We are interesting in searching out Green or Radical Living and Unusual Architectures. This Video of Sliding Walls shows both. Click: http://www.metacafe.com/w/2501498/

I will be back with more at later dates... so do check this blog off and on, if you are into that sorta thing! Enjoy!

As promised another interesting link ... my nephew sent this one... in my estimation it's well worth watching. Click:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•11:01 PM
Recently I discovered a blog called Daily Good http://www.dailygood.org/ and have been impressed and would recommend that others consider it.

When I heard the following Talk referred through Daily Good by Barry Schwartz:
Barry Schwartz makes a passionate call for "practical wisdom" as an antidote to a society gone mad with bureaucracy. He argues powerfully that rules often fail us, incentives often backfire, and practical, everyday wisdom will help rebuild our world. http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/barry_schwartz_on_our_loss_of_wisdom.html I knew immediately I wanted to offer it here on my blog too. It's food for thought and I believe worth listening to and considering, even if you have to do so while you putter in the background.

Oh... and you may want to check out other Video's offered through http://www.ted.com/, they are indeed ideas worth spreading.
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•12:55 PM
Have been put in mind of a comment I made to a blogger who requested Thrifty Tips http://www.mychurch.org/blog/383932/Thrifty-Tips-Wanted and am cutting and pasting below my comment posted there. You may want to visit the link above ... a very special lady and friend writes a blog on numerous topics and other bloggers and friends responded to her request for Thrifty Tips ... Mine being only one of many, (updated here):

~ OK... I'm back with some time and ideas and ways to encourage our being resourceful as well as frugal. (Am one of the local Networkers in our area who connects people to such groups/resources as listed below, so this is why I know there is so much out there, if I may name a few, to begin with)

www.craigslist.com is a good place to find deals in your area, and some barter and offer free stuff too ... as does www.freecycle.org. Think used before you think new... as many people do not use what they buy as an impulse by... or they only use it once then try to find a home for it. Regift such items... or buy at thrift shops/yard sales when you can, for Christmas, Birthday, Anniversary, Wedding, Thinking of you gifts... and keep a box of such items to pick from.

www.AngelFoodMinistry.com and http://greatfoodforall.com are two places to buy food at a low price. See if there is one in your area by posting your zip code at their website, if not, think about beginning one with the help of local volunteers. Their menu changes every month and you can see the current menu at their site, before you decide if you want to find one or not... so do check it out.

In our small community, three years ago we began a 'Free Community Exchange' along side a 'Free Pot Luck' on the last Saturday of each month. This Summer we expanded to the next small town with a Free Community Meal on the 3rd Saturday. We are finding this to be a way for the community to come together and get to know each other more intimately again ... people donate items to us and we give then away for free, one does not need to give/exchange to receive. Others volunteers have joined us... it is something we believe the Spirit of God led us to start and we can see a need for it to grow from community to community as the idea catches on. Several local churches offer their facilities for free and ask for donations/volunteers during their Sunday Services.... and we post Flyer's all month to draw the community in. We call it 'Feed My Sheep'... if anyone wants advice as to how to do this, let me know and I will be willing to give details.

Check out your local papers for other such things which may be going on... there you will find other groups that you can network with, refer or utilize yourself, such as the local Pregnancy Crisis Center, where one can get help with baby items/food for example.

The local Health Departments and Fire Departments have Free Community Programs in our are to help with free flu shots and free car seats ect. If you check them out fairly regularly you will see what's available for time to time. Sometimes such things are posted at the local Library Bulletin Boards too.

Speaking of the Library... they have free movies and story hours they offer (a way to get your children out and entertain them for free, especially in the colder weather when the local Parks are too cold to hang out at)... and they are a great place to check out free DVD's and VCR's, CD's, books on tape, as well as books... saves on having to buy/rent.

If you have children, see if there are local programs offered for free for them via you local community center. If your budget it tight, there are Free Scholarships/Grants available... and sometimes some places/organizations like the local Dance Studio or Art Center, Community Sports Clubs or Boys and Girls Clubs will let your child in for free or on a barter basis, (you help clean up afterwards, for example). They usually know of resources you can utilize like Summer Camps and other Programs. They will also know if there are any Free Meals available during the summer for those under 18, to suppliment the Free Breakfast and Lunch Programs offered during the school year.

With regard to school... those who are struggling to purchase school supplies may want to check with the Boys and Girls Clubs and local Organizations. Many of them have items they give away to help fray the costs and the Principal usually has Funds set aside too. When it comes to finding School Clothes... many Churches help in that area... don't be afraid to call around. Again... keep your eye out in the local paper under the Events Section... in our area... every year we have a church who offers free oil changes for Single Moms once a year... and every fall there is a Health Fair which offers free Cholesterol Tests, Flu Shots, Blood Pressure Checks, Eye Exams and the like. They usually also have litature available which will tell you of other services.



See if you can qualify for the local Food Bank... you don't have to be a part of a Social Services Program to quality in some areas. Farmer's Markets often donate excess to them in the summer, as does 'Hunters for the Hungry'... (they donate deer meat), and some Grocery Stores offer day old Bread and Baked Goods. Sometimes these places will take your name and call you when they have too much deer meat... if you don't quality, as they hate to toss frozen deer meat ect when they need to make room for fresh food. If you volunteer often some will give you of their excess too... and it's a excellent place to serve.... you will be given many prayer burdens as you do.

Buy from Local Farmer's Markets/Produce Stands, they are usually cheaper than the Grocer. Most people who sell at Farmer's Markets are willing to sell (for less) or give away bruised/blemished veggies and fruit, which can be used to can or freeze. (A miss shaped tomato for example will not sell) If they are too bruised, and you grow your own food/plants and need free compost... they are usually willing to give you the stuff which is rotting, and you can compost it or give it to your farm animals as table scraps.

If you decide to check out www.Craigslist.com for free items you might want to consider looking for free or cheap compost and spoilt hay. It's amazing what is sold or given away there... I've known people who have upgraded their homes through them.


Grow your own food if you have the space... start some plants indoors early... such as tomatoes and peppers, the seeds will usually last for more than one year and save on the overall cost and you get your harvest earlier than if you had purchased them. Grow your own herbs too!. Herbs can be expensive, fresh or dried. Preserve your own fruits and veggies ect. If you don't have land, pick up a large plastic barrel saw it in half, fill it with enriched soil and use it as a planter for some veggies.

Plastic Barrels can be used to catch rain and used to water plants.

Local Farmers are usually willing to donate or sell for $5.00 a truck load of muck from their barns, which can be used to make free Compost. Such when it is composted produces free rich soil. (don't be afraid to ask, and to be resourceful, people are usually willing to give away to someone who has such a willing spirit to do for themselves or is need of saving) Don't forget to compost weeds and table scraps, which are not meat items.

The Local Tree Pruning Service the Highway Dept uses, are usually willing to deliver you free chipped up trees at the end of their day you can use for free mulch... (they trim in winter too and you can collect it then and use it later). Sometimes local woodworkers are willing to give away free shavings for mulch/pet cages and sawdust to be mixed with cattle or horse manure, to improve soil which is heavy with clay, (some consider shredded leaves mixed in with the soil to be better).

Grow your own mushrooms... if you like to use a lot of them. They can be grown indoors all year and outdoors too.

Also... I take the mushroom stems and boil them and then cool them, then I puree them and freeze the broth either in a large batch for soup flavoring... or in ice cube trays or small dishes, to add flavor. Boil down left over carcasses from Ham's, Turkeys, Chickens, Beef and the like and freeze the broth for seasoning later, with or without the meat you picked off. (Ice cubes or larger batches) Take the bones and give some to your Dog to gnaw on to keep their teeth clean, it's cheaper than buying raw hide bone at the pet shop... or toss bones at the far corner of your property for wildlife, if your into feeding nature as we are. The bones are gone the next day in most cases. (You can also take left over bacon grease and mix it with stale bread crumbs, cereal, crackers, cookies, oatmeal cooked or dry, peanut butter, nuts and bird seed, ect and freeze it and then put it out on a cold winters day to feed the birds).

Speaking of leftovers... you can take any leftovers and put them in a large canning jar, or container of some sort and freeze it until you have a large batch to make Hodge Podge Soup out of. (yes you can mix and match meats, gravies, veggies, a little here a little there, adds up to a flavorful pot of soup later).

You can use left over bread for bread pudding, bread crumbs, homemade croutons, and the like. One can do the same with crackers... I have a great recipe for Toffee Cookies make out of stale crackers, sugar, butter, water and chocolate chips. Bread can be freshened see: http://www.ehow.com/how_2182009_freshen-stale-bread.html THIS is a great site to find out how to do lots of things as well!

Make your own homemade hot chocolate, Bisquick, pudding, bread crumbs, cakes, French fried ect... this is more economical in the long runif you have the time and inclination. If you don't already do so and you need to save money and are conscience of portion control... why not consider bagging up small bags of potato chips up rather than buying them prebagged.... have the kids do them for the next day themselves to save you time, or better yet have them do it with you if your looking for ways to spend time with family while doing chores for them. Reuse the plastic bags that meat and produce comes in for Cherries or Grapes in School Lunches... and if you do not already do so... start packing lunches again. If you have a seal a meal, you can reseal the cracker, chip and cereal bags to keep food fresh longer.

Buy items when on sale, especially food and make your meals based upon what you bought on sale, rather than on an impulse buy. Stock up on Pantry items when they go on sale or you have a coupon for them. Meat is usually marked down in the morning... but ask the gentleman behind the window.

Plan recipes based on what you have on hand which needs to be used up. Shop with a list so you are not tempted to buy what you don't need, and never shop hungry and when you do buy an item on sale, think about what you have in stock already to make a meal out of, and buy items accordingly for the recipe. Before walking up the the register or before putting it in the cart, think again.... is this necessary? When you can, stock up.... for a rainy day. Make it homemade when you can... and make a large portion and freeze part of it for a day when your too busy to cook.

Hang Clothes out to dry... and freshen them up in the dryer to get the wrinkles out just before you put them on... if you haven't already done so... you may discover you like the fresh scent of air drying them and save on the cost of fabric softeners.

Take a small Cloth and soak it in some Fabric Softener and use it as a dryer sheet... and when the scent begins to go away... add a little more, no need to resoak it.

Make your own 'green' cleaning products.... there are lots of recipes on line.

Save Scraps of Soap and put them in an empty liquid soap container with a little water and fragrant oil to make your own Hand Soap.

Combine left over lotions and add your own scent to it them when the container is full ... put the containers in for a few seconds to melt them enough to pour them out easily when you get to the end of the container.

After using Scented Candles... save the left over scraps and put them in a Potporri container or in a warming jar under a tea light Candle to get the most of them.


Well that's all for now.... enjoy!

Sis... hope you feel better soon!!! ~


Would very much appreciate it if you added tips and ideas of your own below, they don't all have to be thrifty ... practical works, all categories welcome. In another blog I will be posting ~ Thrifty Recipes and Practical Substitutions ~ hope you will come back and join in with me when I do ... in the meantime, please leave your link in the section on the left, created with people like you in mind!
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•1:52 PM
"Brendi...." began my Dad a CPA, when I entered High School in 1964, "you and I both know you're not College material even if I can afford to send you 3 girls and more importantly your 3 brothers when the time comes.... it's best for you to learn Secretarial Skills so you can take care of yourself until you marry. When you get married your husband will take care of you, so you can stay home like your mom and take care of your husband and your home and raise your children together."

These were the words which came to mind when my husband could not find, to quote his mother 'a decent job', as he along with other Soldiers left the service at the end of the Vietnam War in the 70's and flooded the market with people trying to find employment. It appeared it was going to be necessary for me to go back to work giving him the opportunity to take the time necessary to find his career of choice. It had been our desire that I be a stay at home mom and wife while he worked at his chosen field of employment ... but once he was drafted and our son was born, he gave up on becoming a Lawyer and was limited to finding work with a Political Science Degree ... in a time of growing unemployment.

His mother never wanting to be ignored, and not afraid to show her disappointment screamed at us more than once words such as these, "I did not send my only child to College so you could become a Debit Collector, you need to find a Career worthy of you." and "You need to hold out for a decent job. You were an Officer in the Marine Corps during Vietnam and should be looking for a Career not just a Job. You need to get a real Job, I don't care how long it takes, you hear me? You need to make her go find a menial job instead, while you look for a Career using your College Degree! No son of mine........"

Being a people pleaser with a desire to be a supportive wife, a responsible mother and one willing to work, I took it upon myself to find several part time jobs from home when my husband quit his menial job, enabling him to look for an occupation, more in line with a Career, than one which would support us in our immediate circumstances. When the eviction notices began to come in, I took a job in the evening as well, even though I hated leaving my husband, baby and toddler. Inwardly I carried a lot of anxiety and emotional pain with a sense of failure and shame which ultimately began to overwhelm me. Years later I was able to look back with compassion, as I remembered being very exhausted and depressed during that season of my life. At my breaking point, I would draw the drapes to our sliding glass doors while the children napped, sit in the living room chair, wrapped up in my own arms and rock my body to and fro to soothe myself. Even though I knew Jesus as my Savior, I had never been taught I could reach out to God as my Father for guidance or help ... but in desperation, I did... it seemed like the right thing to do.

Praying and asking for God's help gave me strength and a sense of direction and hope. My conscience would no longer allow me to give over my motherly duties to another... After High School I became a Professional Secretary and made an excellent income ... but I was now of a mind that our children needed the security of my mothering influence at their stage of development more than the things I knew my profession of choice could provide.

About that time, I heard about a Government Program designed to help single moms with children under the age of 6, stay at home and raise their own children with Public Assistance. I was amazed as to how the doors quickly opened up for me to move into Section 8 housing once I sensed this was the wisest choice for now. I was told there was a 2 year waiting list, but the Rental Manager called me, (after I prayed) informing me she had decided to put me on top of her list. My Dad paid the deposit, furious having discovered my husband was not willing to take any job he could find to support his family; not caring what his mother expected of us or the fact that he had a College Degree or had been an Officer in the Marine Corp.

When I felt I had no other choice, I received the nerve to call my husbands mother and blurted out something like this, "I know you think your only child needs to hold out for a Career, but when I walked in the door around 2:30 am from working at Pizza Hut and found your son passed out, our daughter and son crying, she still in the same diaper she was in when I left at 4:45 pm, laying on drenched sheets, her clothes and blanket soaked all of the way through, I made some tough decisions you may not like. I found your son a job as a Photographer in a Studio. In order for him to take it he needs new glasses, as he broke his in a drunken stupor and we can't afford to replace them. If you want to find him better employment, that's up to you. I just got us caught up on paying off our 3rd Eviction Notice... our Landlord has been working with me and she has agreed to let us out of our Rental Agreement without penalty. I am leaving our vehicle with your son, so he can go to work. I have found subsidized housing within walking distance of everything we need. Your son can visit our children, but can't come with us, because I am going on Public Assistance so I can raise our babies, rather than have someone else do it. I think being raised with a full time mother is more important than things at their age! Your son has given up on looking for a career in an effort to please you and meet your expectations and spends his days drinking now. We tried to work things out, but he says his Therapy Group says he drinks to much because of me. As his mom it's best that you be the one to try to get his thinking right, so he can support his family someday. He refuses to listen to me. So... my mind is made up ... I won't allow our children to live like this any longer! If you don't take your son in, he has no place to go."


Once I started this new beginning... with a budget of $400.00 a month to work with, I knew I needed to be more ingenious than usual and take advantage of practical resources available to those who have a low income. Almost immediately I heard about the County Home Extension Service, which had literature on cooking/living on a budget. While reading, I was inspired to teach myself how to make my own food from scratch, (Growing up, I was the eldest child who took care of my brothers and sisters while mom cooked ... we cleaned up after as a part of our daily chores, it was important to our parents that we learned to be responsible members of the family and thus society when we left home.) Later in life I became a Chef at Listening Heart Farm Bed and Breakfast in Madison VA, and I could see in hindsight how all of this was training for that which Father God knew was to come. In other Blogs I will be sharing some of the adventures my second husband and I had as Inn Keepers on 32 acres in the country, as well as some recipes and useful shopping/gardening tips, with the hopes you enjoy reading them and will add to them.

The Housing I found in Reston VA was an Apt for if I remember correctly, $225.00 a month. It was a new Government Planned Community and rents were determined by our income. We had air conditioning, dishwashers, basic cable, pool privileges, on site play grounds, our nearest neighbor was the Elementary School and as my children grew I took advantage of our Apt Community Center which did fun things, like Kiddy Parades and Costume Contests at Halloween, Easter Egg Hunts and the like. My children's costumes were home made and I found great pleasure in developing my creative side.

I also took advantage of Community Scholarships for our children like Free Swimming Lessons, Art Lessons and Ballet Lessons, which were made available for families with a low income. Taking advantage of Community Resources, living within our budget in practical way before and after my husband and I got back together and started a small Carpet Cleaning Company, 'RugMaster', enabled us to save enough, even while paying a higher rent, to eventually move out of low income housing. Something we both looked forward to...

It was during this new beginning, that I eventually turned my life completely over to Father God for His will to come into being and learned to hear His voice and follow His leadings and apply His guidance. Almost immediately Father revealed HimSelf to me as our Provider and Healer and proved HimSelf as He answered prayers .... healing me spirit, soul and bodily.... teaching me and training me in the way HE knew was best. I will share more on this in other blogs... with the hopes you too will share of your own spiritual experiences, by was of refreshing, enlightenment and encouragement.

When friends in our small Community would mention their need, I'd pray for them... to my delight someone would donate just what was needed and I'd pass it along, praising Father for HIS faithfulness. Being in similar circumstances, as friends and neighbors we took turns baby sitting for one another... giving us mom's the opportunity to have some times of refreshing. We shared meals and passed along toys and clothing and ultimately spiritual insights, as we matured and became like an extended family, enabling what we had to work with, to stretch further than it would have otherwise.

I understand what it is to struggle and am pleased those days are behind me, but know I am a better person because of them in many ways and do not regret them. In order to live within our means, sometimes I washed our clothes in the tub and hung them around the Apt to dry. Back then when one bought food with Food Stamps, we would get change ... I would save it up to buy toilet paper and the like, as funds were very tight. I walked back and forth to the store with a pull cart while a friend watched my children and I did the same for her. We are still best of friends over 30 years later and look back over those days with fond memories. We did what we had to do to survive without adding additional stress to our lives and our childrens lives... we did it in such as way, that we hoped as our children grew, they did not know they were living at poverty level. I thank God for the gifts of generous relatives which enabled them to have what others took for granted.

Even before those days, when my first child was born, I used cloth diapers over paper, in an effort to be practical, so I was already of this mind, when circumstances forced me to do so. Being health conscious, in earlier years, I avoided prepackaged food. I made my own baby food from our meals, rather than buy it prepared. I cooked oatmeal and cream of wheat instead of using the baby type and thinned it down with milk. I watered down the adult juices, which is what the Baby Companies do with Baby Juice they sell as convenience food. I mixed mashed potatoes with the ground up meats to make them more palatable .... Recently we laughed together when I told my eldest this, after our grand daughter was born. Our son said his Marine buddies’ poked fun at him after observing he likes his meats mixed with potatoes, and now he understands why that is his preference.

Looking back, I can clearly see, I've always sought to be thrifty and not waste... being the eldest of 6 children and one who grew up with limited means, so living efficiently and being generous to those in need, can easily be a place of comfort for me. It is my hope to share in these blogs some of the spiritual lessons I learned as my thinking was renewed, as well as some prudent lessons when it comes to day to day living … and I hope you all will join in.

Please know, I have shared the details above, with the hopes it will encourage those who find themselves in a place in life that they never expected to be... to reach out to God their Father for His wisdom and Divine favor and restorative power if they have not done so already ... and to open a window into the life of one who was on Public Assistance for a season... to show how beneficial it can be in times of crisis and need... and to eventually share how one can find ways and the strength to leave it behind when the time is right. If you’ve had similar experiences, please tell us in a comment below… thanks in advance.... as it is my hopes these blogs will help those in need of reading them ... especially now, as so many are struggling globally and are in need of hope, practical wisdom, self discipline and encouragement.
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•12:29 PM
I heard a voice deep within say.... "Close your eyes..." I did.

As I did I heard, "I am describing to you a house, a tree and a horse."

"Now... if you were born blind... do you think you would have seen the true image or only a concept of what you imagine them to be?"

I said, 'A concept....'

The voice continued.... "Due to the flesh nature, man is born blind to spiritual truths... until I open their eyes through their union with my Spirit. The Kingdom of God is not like anything man has yet imagined for they have not yet conceived that which I alone can reveal. Let go of ALL of your concepts, your perspectives... ALL vain imaginations... and traditional thinking, as you identify with My son at Calvary... that I might reveal to you My simple truth... and My Kingdom, it is not how you first perceived it to Be. Continually let go and embrace that which I offer in it's stead… be transformed."

As I let go... I was reminded once again of the essence of something the Spirit of the Lord told me in earlier days… ‘In order for you to come to a place of deeper understanding… you need to lay down that which fills your hands already. In order for Me to give you something new you must be willing to let go of the old for it has lost its savor ... is no longer necessary for the development of your spiritual maturity. If you do not let go, you will be in danger of serving an illusion and momentarily loosing sight of Me and the wholeness of My truth.”

Having experienced all of this… Father has caused me to understand… if I truly desire to continue to grow through a healthy relationship with His Spirit, I must put away childish ideals... and youthful treasures… Truly His Spirit within is calling me/us to grow with a greater awareness than when we first began. To let go upon conviction... and embrace something new, takes us out of chaos and inner turmoil into that which has already been prepared for us since the foundations of the world. Such ultimately brings about a balanced, generous pleasant spiritual journey...
Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•12:21 AM
As I listened to Father's words of explanation as to why I was in this painful cycle, "It's your identification with love: Yell at me, punish me, hurt me. This is your souls place of comfort. Your subconscious mind seeks to create it, in it's search for love. Let go of your identification with love. Embrace the truth of My love." a memory from my childhood came into my mind:

With great pain in my heart I was telling my friend "I can't play with you anymore, since mom discovered us smoking and drinking at your house."

If I remember correctly, she had just turned 13 and was an only child of a second marriage, both of whom worked. I was 11 and the oldest of 4 ... my mom was a stay at home mom. It was 1960 and we lived in a small neighborhood in the suburbs. A few of us had gone up to her house to play. We wanted to pretend we were grown up, so when she gave me a whiskey with a cherry in it and called it a Martini, I was thrilled. I hated the taste and the burning of my throat, it took me years before I was willing to taste alcohol again. When she offered me a pack of Paxton Cigarettes, being a non smoker, I thought chain smoking would be fun ... this quickly made me sick to my stomach and caused me to never want another cigarette.

Later, when another friend came to get me to go to her house, and discovered what we were doing, she was horrified and quickly left. She told my mom, who promptly came up to get me with dad's belt. She screamed and cursed me, as she whipped me all of the way home.

I came to understand my mom had a hard time controlling and letting go of her temper and became irrational when angry, so my parents agreed dad needed to be the predominant disciplinarian when it came to deciding on the punishment and doling it out. "You just wait until your Father gets home!" were usually her final words on the matter once the dastardly deed was found out and she'd had her say.

Part of my Father's united front philosophy, which he explained to me when I became a parent was: If we are harsh with them the first time, hopefully there won't be a second. Never punish in anger, instead make them think about their crime until bedtime, and if they forget to remind me to punish them, or fight me, their punishment will be twice as severe. "I don't care what other parents let their children do, we're not responsible for them. What we say goes!" were usually his final words on the matter once they came into agreement privately and had their say publically.

My parents' took their roles as responsible parents seriously. They loved us dearly, willingly making sacrifices, wanting what was best for us. They had no problem being thought of as the bad guys if that caused us to turn out to be half way decent human beings. Sparing the rod, definitely spoilt the child in their minds... they believed a spoilt child, like spoilt meat has no value. One word of disrespect to either of them was the ultimate crime. "That's my wife you're talking to!", was something dad only had to say to me once.

I don't remember what else I said to my friend that day as I whined and complained about my parent's harsh punishment... but I do remember her teary eyed reply to me, before we parted company, "Well... at least your parents love you enough to punish you. My parent's don't care."

Her words and the strange feelings which came over me after hearing them, became the focus of my memory. I became aware of the distorted thinking which had been built upon them. Willingly I released my identification with love which was creating negative circumstances ... with the promise of embracing that which would renew the spirit of my mind and the motivations of my heart... releasing me into Father's overflowing, undying love.

Author: FullyAliveNJesus
•10:46 PM
'I left myself a note to remind me, but forgot to read it. Why? I knew he'd get angry if I forgot, yet I forgot. Why? I wanted to remember, to please him, to please You why did I forget? You know I hate to get in trouble. Why does this kind of thing keep happening?' were the silent words I cried deep within my soul, to the Spirit of the Being I knew to be the author and finisher of my faith, the restorer of my soul and more, Jesus Christ ... these were the heart felt words I poured out to Almighty God, Who had revealed HimSelf to me as my loving Father, my kind healer, my intimate provider ... the Holy and Righteous Spirit of unconditional love and truth Who had awakened my Spirit to His reality and more.

The essence of the words I heard in response, "It's your identification with love: Yell at me, punish me, hurt me. This is your souls place of comfort. Your subconscious mind seeks to create it, in it's search for love. Let go of your identification with love. Embrace the truth of My love."; and the journey into the fullness of God's love which has followed, has done far more than simply transform my inner man .... it has changed my entire life for the better, causing me to let go of chaos and inner turmoil ~ embracing a balanced, generous, pleasant journey along the way...

I hope to be empowered to impart hope which incorporates both practical, frugal living, resourceful tips and spiritual truths together as I share some of what I have learned over the past 59 years and invite others to do the same. *above story expanded in next blog*
Author: Wendy (Sweetie)
•8:00 AM
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